Negative Attitude Effects Negative

I have never Seen Continuing, Successful Person with a Bad Attitude.

You are where you are and what you are because of the dominating thoughts that occupy your mind. Negative thoughts results in a negative person who is bound by his own person who is bound by his own negative circumstances. A negative thinker is like a man who swallowed an egg, shell and all. He was afraid to move for fear it would break, and he was afraid to sit still for fear it would hatch.

Here are six things that can result from can result from continual negative thinking.

  • Negative Thinking creates clouds at critical decision times.
  • Negative Thinking is contagious.
  • Negative Thinking blows everything out of perspective.
  • Negative Thinking decreases hope.
  • Negative Thinking limits our potential.
  • Negative Thinking keep us from enjoying life.

Negative Thinking creates clouds at critical decision times :
When a person always look for and finds a negative things in life it becomes a habit that is hard to overcome. When a positive opportunity presents itself, the negative person cant see it and never seize it. He will see every circumstances as a series of obstacles. The difference between obstacle and opportunity is the way you look at the situation. In such scenario with negative attitude deciding good, bad or worst becomes difficult for a manager. Abraham Lincoln considered by many to be the greatest president in the history of US said "Success is going from failure to failure without loosing your enthusiasm."

Negative Thinking is contagious :
Spending long period of time with Negative people will affect you. If you spend long with a person, you behave, look a like. Negative thinking is not apart from that this effect. So person need to be cautious while choosing the company, friends, partners and relatives to whom they spend most of the time of life.

Negative Thinking blows everything out of perspective :
You have probably been around people who blow everything out of proportion. Where there's a leak in the roof, they treat it like a hurricane. All they see in life is doom and gloom. These are people whose motto in life is the same as Murphy's law. You May have heard it : Nothing is as easy as it looks, everything takes longer than you expect, and if anything can go wrong it will and at the worst possible moment".
Instead of, I look at life accordingly to Maxwell's law : Nothing is as hard as it looks, everything is more rewarding than you expect, and if anything can go right, it will end at the best possible moment".

Negative Thinking decreases hope :
Negative Thinking destroys faith and undermines hope. It slowly but continually demoralizes the negative thinker, destroys his momemtum. The negative thinker do not get an idea about what is happening with his, but to aovid such cases a person need to identify his way of thinking and take necessary actions to change the same.

Negative Thinking limits our potential :
Negative thinker expect less and they get little, they also thing small about the world around them, people around them. Crates negative impact, energy, waves which do not support them to be a potential sources in the world. The negative thinking limits you growth because it is a cultivation of you thinking process. People become what they believe. People can not achieve what they do not aim for.

Negative Thinking keep us from enjoying life :
Negative Thinkers are seasick during the entire pan of their life. Regardless of the present, they are disappointed in the future. Many have adopted Chislom's Law which says "Anytime things appear to be getting better, you have overlooked something".
For negative people, the glass is never half full, it is always half empty. They expect and receive worst in life. If we have to live the life with full of joy and success, fullest to reach our goals, potential and enjoy the journey , we must be positive - Despite the circumstances life deals us.

Few Tips to Avoid Negative Thinking :

- Each time you catch yourself thinking a negative thought, reject the thought, and think a positive one instead.
- If you catch yourself visualizing failure, visualize success instead.
- If you hear yourself uttering negative words, change to positive words instead.
- When you say, "I cannot", say, "I can".
- Do you repeat negative words and phrases in your mind? Change them to positive ones.
- Open your mind to positive attitude and expect positive results.
- Decide that from today, from this very moment, you are leaving negative thinking behind, and starting on the way toward positive thinking and behavior.
It is never too late to change your attitude and your life.

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